Monday, May 26, 2008

该放下,休息了

今天我感觉特别累。

累了,每天有许多做不完的工作。
累了,公司里的事情好像永远都解决不完。
累了,家里不够整齐。
累了,衣服好像不够穿了。
累了,怎么总找不到时间运动?
累了,身体怎么都不听使唤?
累了,我真得累了。

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Thank you, My Friends !

Last Friday, I had a meeting my girl friends. It has been so long time since the last time we had meeting like that, you know..girls meeting, no guy around.

I was late, again! haha, I'm always the late one for MOST of the meetings. (come on, sometimes I'm on-time leh..lol..)

At first, I thought I was not able to make it to the meet-up because I had meeting that day at 5pm, then KS mum is leaving to China that night, it's the culture of KS family to have dinner together and accompany the parent to the KL Sentral when they going oversea. If I tell KS I'm going out, will he be angry because we really seldom have dinner with her mum lately? hmm.....

Luckilly, when I called up KS's sister, she said her mum had "da bao" her dinner already since she has not finish packing her stuffs. Thank god! Now, I'm out of the dillemma! Haha.. (I hope KS mum was not dissapointed because I didn't say goodbye to her, )

Dinner with the girls was awesome! We had western food fiesta at the newly opened restaurant named "Tony Roma's". It's very famous, I've seen the restaurant when I was in Fullerton, California. Our tour guide recommended us to try the cuisine there (she said very famous in Taiwan wor), but we didn't dare to enter the doorstep of the restaurant. Why? Because we worry the PRICE will be a heart-attack for us. LOL~ But it was really out of my expectation when the bill charged 5 of us like RM200 that night on 4 dinner meals. I thought it's going to be like RM70-80 per person.

The food we ordered was so delicious, I liked the grilled Salmon so much! Tender in the inside and crispy on the outside, it's so perfect !! I had no chance to try other food because my tummy was going to explode after I stucking the whole Salmon to my stomach. (it was too tasty that I cannot leave them on the table u know, I have to finish them all!)

After a long dinner, Diana said "ah..the night is still young!". Then I said "ya ya.. very young tim!" Hehe..me and she were being naughty that night. (no bfs around + long time never go to club = wat u waiting for? party time!)

But there were something I didn't notice until we started to chit-chat at the Italianese. It was not party time for some of my friends.

Ping has broken up with Hao Kan........

Ya, they broke up for sometime already. .. ..it didn't surprise me. .. but I'm a little concern about Ping. Worry about she's staying alone, and hanging out with people that she might not know much.. etc etc.. Tonight I'll sms her, see how's she's doing ..

Then, it's Mian. I've never seen her stress-out like that before! Her work must have challenge her so so much. Now she's in Bintulu, somewhre she hates to stick aroung with. But it's work, and she has no choice. Hope she'll be healthy always, and happy. Next year, look for a new job that require no travel ! But something is really good, Mian is thinner already, haha.. I also want to be thin like her ! (ah, now I'm mad, thinking about my big tummy..)

Ah Fu, she was so quite that night. I think because her contact lenses were dry-out. I finally saw her laptop! Hu hu hu..very nice laptop, and even nicer because it's FOC. Her company really very rich !

Diana..what can I say. She was the best listener that night, simply because she tumpang my car to go home. LOL ~ I'm not sure she was willing to listen to my long and never ending stories or she was asleep/yawning/发呆ing, but I really appreciate it ! Cha boh, you are the best! Please follow my car again next time, okay? Let me nagging around..LOL~

That's all my story for the last weekend. It was so fantastic because of you all, my friends !! Thank you so much !


..so, when is the next clubbing time ya?..

Comment from Dinosaur aka Diana (my sweet friend)
I am always a good listener..haahha hope all our friends will be doing ok. :)
more updates! more updates! :P

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

靈魂擁抱 - 侯文詠

最近我在读这本书。

第一次读侯文詠的书已是十几年前的事了。那本书,離島醫生, 是我哥的。我不是很记得书的内容,但是书的封面真的让我难忘,其实也没什么特别,就是不知道为什么我会那么难忘。就是一个男人,坐在一个岛上。

嗯,但是,很奇怪,我刚刚在网上都找不到那个封面。难道我记错了?嗯。。也许那个封面是马来西亚版本才有的吧。

这是我在网上找到的:

那时我读这本书时,才十几岁,不是很体会其中的含义。我只是觉得很好笑,把它当成一本笑话。现在看回网上的内容简介,才知道其实这是一个蛮心酸的故事。因为述说的是四十年代大战的医生故事,在又乱又穷的时代要救人真不容易。这本却可以如此轻松讲出那时发生的事,还真特别。

那么,灵魂拥抱又是说些什么呢?我现在已读了一半,还不错。故事是环绕在4个人物上: 一位名作家,患了癌症的女粉丝,漂亮的新闻女主播,单恋得有点变态的男摄影师。



读这本书没什么压力,我最喜欢这类书籍,让人可以放松。好像在看戏一样,但是却比看戏更精彩,为什么?因为看戏,只有导演的想象,所有情节,细节,都是导演一人的指定动作,怎样笑,怎样变态。。看书就不同了,我有一大想象空间; 而且,文字的描述远比演出来的详细多了。

让我看完这本书,我在慢慢告诉你们整个故事,ok?

哦,顺带一提,白色巨塔,也是侯文咏的作品。是个超赞的故事,非常值得一看。(但是,好像有日本和台湾版本,嗯。。我看的(电视剧)是日本的,不懂是不是同一作者?)

经我一查,原来白色巨塔的原著不是侯文咏:

1963年出版,暢銷40餘年,
熱賣超過550萬冊,一部不可錯過的二十世紀文學經典鉅著
日本戰後十大女作家之一,社會派小說巨匠山崎豐子代表作

作者簡介

  日本戰後十大女作家之一
  與松本清張、水上勉齊名的社會派小說巨匠

  山崎豐子 (Yamasaki Toyoko)1924年生於大阪,京都女子大學國文科畢,在每日新聞學藝部任職期間於井上靖轄下擔任記者,工作之餘從事寫作,於一九五七年以《暖簾》一 書初試啼聲,進入文壇,第二年即以《花暖簾》獲直木賞,之後辭掉報社工作專事寫作。1963年在《Sunday每日》週刊上開始《白色巨塔》的連載,因探 討醫病之社會關係,內容尖銳,引起話題。其後陸續發表《二個祖國》、《大地之子》、《不落的太陽》,1993年獲頒菊池寬賞。

Monday, May 12, 2008

More on Austria Evil Father - Confession + Story-Telling?!

Today, there're more stories being reported about this horrified news in Austria - the confession from the Insane Father aka Grandfather.. Also, he told the world about his SWEET stories with his ANOTHER FAMILY down at the dungeon...personally, it digust me very much.

He told media how much he loves his SECOND family down at the dungeon, which wifed by his own flesh daughter, childrened by his own grandchildren. He even said Elisabeth is a "GOOD WIFE"...oh my goodness! On top of so much sins he had done, he still able to pull out the "sweet moments" that he's so proud of! What a great romantic love he has, enough to sacrifice 7 healthy lives and his own family member's feelings...

On the other side, I read happy moments Elisabeth spent with her family, yet I'm not so convinced when the her sister-in-law said she was "chatty, healthy, normal..." I wondering how a human can act such normally after so much happened on her? Unless..someone is telling something which is not true..or there is another side of the story? that Elisabeth's situation is not as bad as told? I'd rather believe that the sister-in-law is trying to cover up the ass of her brother-in-law, the insane father or grandfather, in this terrible story..

But what if Elisabeth's condition was not as bad as we imagine?...maybe she has used to the life down at the dungeon? or she was in love with her own father aka her husband? after so many years living in a small space, maybe she has accepted that the her father has became her husband? I can't think any further more..it makes me feel cold and scary..

Anyway, I felt relief when the report said Elisabeth is healthy and getting stronger (eventhough I still doubt at it). Afterall, health is all that matters. We can fix other things when we have good health.

Sad story for the ill daughter, 19 years old Kristen. Report says she's extremely ill, she has no teeth...ya, no teeth, at 19 of age. I hope she can make it to live, become strong, to slap at this insane man at his face...


Read the News here:
http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2008/5/8/worldupdates/2008-05-08t173905z_01_nootr_rtrmdnc_0_india-334775-1&sec=worldupdates
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/josef_fritzl/1944003/Josef-Fritzl-Doctor's-one-man-campaign-that-exposed-the-truth.html
http://www.news.com.au/story/0,23599,23682925-401,00.html

Thursday, May 8, 2008

Austria Evil Father

这世界真的病了吗?

看完有关的新闻后,我第一个问自己的就是这个问题。

嫌犯父亲终于打破沉默,开口道起自己的所作所为。

他第一句话是:“我不是野兽(monster)!”

看了之后,我觉得很失望。把家人伤害的那么深,他的第一句话居然是为自己打抱不平!都什么时候了, 他还不醒觉?也许,野兽是个很重的称呼,也许他不是杀人凶手,也许他并没有我们想像的那么变态,也许。。是,是有很多也许让世人对他不要太绝情。但是,这些是最重要的吗?难道不是应该想想他的孩子。。还是孙子的健康吗?危在旦夕,人命攸关,难道我们也要像这个无耻的父亲一样忘记了吗?

我还在想象他的第一句话是说:“我的家人,我对不起你们。”

伤害了他的女儿,伤害了她为他生下的孩子,伤害了他的妻子,还有其他的孩子。难道他一点感觉都没有吗?一点悔意都没有吗?

他这样还有人性吗?和自己的女儿生下的自己孩子已经有够变态了,还把他们关在没有阳光的地库,不让他们过正常的生活,这简直比起将他们杀死还残忍啊,这种慢性折磨,叫人生不如死,他还好意思说自己不是野兽?不是杀人犯?我的天,到底这是个什么人?魔鬼的化身!

魔鬼,希望你早日回头反省,虽然你罪该万死,但是我希望你临死前可以好好和你的女儿,那些小孩们还有你的家人说声对不起。。

你死后就一了百了,但你知道那6个小孩还有多少日子要过吗?他们的成长已经被你污染了,你死有余辜,但他们是无辜的,你知道吗?还有你的女儿,她的青春一早被你毁灭了,你知道吗?

其实我比较希望神可以延长你的寿命,让你生存多几十年,然后要你把整件事纠正好来,把你伤害过的人好好整顿,让他们可以过的快乐,健康。

对,这就是最好的惩罚!


有关新闻:
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/topstories/2008/05/08/exclusive-josef-fritzl-s-absurd-defence-i-m-not-a-monster-89520-20409349/
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/topstories/2008/05/07/exclusive-josef-fritzl-relative-talks-for-the-first-time-about-cellar-fiend-89520-20407976/

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

小咪咪看病记

六个月前,小咪咪病了。其实也没怎么不舒服,只是左眼有些肿。

医生看了看,说:“嗯,我觉得应该没什么大问题。可是为了安全起见,你还是去见见专科医生,听听他怎么说。”

于是小咪咪便找了个眼睛专科,让他看看究竟是不是有肿瘤。

专科医生名字叫“Gomez", 是个葡萄牙血种。听说他是城中有名的专科。在医生房里,她把手按在小咪咪的眼睛四周,然后在一个地方停顿了下来,说:“这里有个肿瘤,嗯,应该不是什么严重的瘤。你的眼睛本来就是这个颜色吗?”

为了不让自己颤抖的声音揭穿自己的害怕的心情,小咪咪只是点了点头,就什么也没说。但其实,医生一早看穿小咪咪的心情:“噢,没什么的,小事情,放心好了!”

检查后,医生便拿出月历,说:“六个月后,你再来让我看看。你现在什么都不必做,也不必吃药。”

六个月过去了,小咪咪又再次站在医生面前。

医生如往常般检查后,告诉小咪咪:“嗯,看来六个月前的肿瘤已经不见了。是好消息。至于那些在左眼和右眼出现的肿瘤,它们是水肿瘤,过一下就会消失。你不必担心。”

“哪,我还需要定时来让你检查吗?” 小咪咪实在按捺不住雀跃的心情,连说话时都好像在手舞足蹈。

“没这个必要。除非你发现又有肿瘤,再打电话给我安排时间让我看看;要不然,等到了四十岁时再做仔细检查。”

就这样,小咪咪结束了半年以来的担心煎熬,快步加跳跃地离开那个让人透不到气的诊所。

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