我的死党 - 惠敏 / ah mek / ah mian - 即将结婚了, 好开心啊! 哈哈。= ）
想起几年前她向我说到这位"未来老公"时, 我真得给她吓坏了! 因为那时她才刚认识了一个男友不久，感情不太稳定，还在担心她的时候就跑出另一个男生。哈哈，那时还弄得我忐忑不安，担心她不知是不是被什么沙巴的土著下了降头，哈哈。现在想回来，真有点蠢。爱情要来的时候真是什么都抵挡不出的，ok? 我也不是一下子跑到KL来，还跟一个认识不久的男生同居。哈哈。。
那天，我问她：“喂，是什么让你甘心嫁给他呢？为什么怎么勇敢，作此决定？”
她没想很久便回答我说：“在一些人眼中，可能觉得他没什么可以给我。但是，我觉得他对我很好，不会随便发我脾气，而且当我捉不定主意时，他会替我决定。我觉得这样就足够了。”
听了之后，我感觉特别温暖。爱情的力量啊。。
原来，一生的承诺，不需要很多的supporting details， 也不需要复杂的理由，还是梦幻似的原因。一切只需要一样东西， 那就是信心，对对方的信心，相信对方是可以委托终生的人。就这么简单。
敏，长脚妹，希望你和布赖恩会一生一世都那么恩爱，甜蜜，快乐，幸福。
还有一大堆的准备功夫，需要帮忙的话，出一句声，我马上报到！嘻嘻。。
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Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Thank you, My Friends !
Last Friday, I had a meeting my girl friends. It has been so long time since the last time we had meeting like that, you know..girls meeting, no guy around.
I was late, again! haha, I'm always the late one for MOST of the meetings. (come on, sometimes I'm on-time leh..lol..)
At first, I thought I was not able to make it to the meet-up because I had meeting that day at 5pm, then KS mum is leaving to China that night, it's the culture of KS family to have dinner together and accompany the parent to the KL Sentral when they going oversea. If I tell KS I'm going out, will he be angry because we really seldom have dinner with her mum lately? hmm.....
Luckilly, when I called up KS's sister, she said her mum had "da bao" her dinner already since she has not finish packing her stuffs. Thank god! Now, I'm out of the dillemma! Haha.. (I hope KS mum was not dissapointed because I didn't say goodbye to her, )
Dinner with the girls was awesome! We had western food fiesta at the newly opened restaurant named "Tony Roma's". It's very famous, I've seen the restaurant when I was in Fullerton, California. Our tour guide recommended us to try the cuisine there (she said very famous in Taiwan wor), but we didn't dare to enter the doorstep of the restaurant. Why? Because we worry the PRICE will be a heart-attack for us. LOL~ But it was really out of my expectation when the bill charged 5 of us like RM200 that night on 4 dinner meals. I thought it's going to be like RM70-80 per person.
The food we ordered was so delicious, I liked the grilled Salmon so much! Tender in the inside and crispy on the outside, it's so perfect !! I had no chance to try other food because my tummy was going to explode after I stucking the whole Salmon to my stomach. (it was too tasty that I cannot leave them on the table u know, I have to finish them all!)
After a long dinner, Diana said "ah..the night is still young!". Then I said "ya ya.. very young tim!" Hehe..me and she were being naughty that night. (no bfs around + long time never go to club = wat u waiting for? party time!)
But there were something I didn't notice until we started to chit-chat at the Italianese. It was not party time for some of my friends.
Ping has broken up with Hao Kan........
Ya, they broke up for sometime already. .. ..it didn't surprise me. .. but I'm a little concern about Ping. Worry about she's staying alone, and hanging out with people that she might not know much.. etc etc.. Tonight I'll sms her, see how's she's doing ..
Then, it's Mian. I've never seen her stress-out like that before! Her work must have challenge her so so much. Now she's in Bintulu, somewhre she hates to stick aroung with. But it's work, and she has no choice. Hope she'll be healthy always, and happy. Next year, look for a new job that require no travel ! But something is really good, Mian is thinner already, haha.. I also want to be thin like her ! (ah, now I'm mad, thinking about my big tummy..)
Ah Fu, she was so quite that night. I think because her contact lenses were dry-out. I finally saw her laptop! Hu hu hu..very nice laptop, and even nicer because it's FOC. Her company really very rich !
Diana..what can I say. She was the best listener that night, simply because she tumpang my car to go home. LOL ~ I'm not sure she was willing to listen to my long and never ending stories or she was asleep/yawning/发呆ing, but I really appreciate it ! Cha boh, you are the best! Please follow my car again next time, okay? Let me nagging around..LOL~
That's all my story for the last weekend. It was so fantastic because of you all, my friends !! Thank you so much !
..so, when is the next clubbing time ya?..
Comment from Dinosaur aka Diana (my sweet friend)
I am always a good listener..haahha hope all our friends will be doing ok. :)
more updates! more updates! :P
I was late, again! haha, I'm always the late one for MOST of the meetings. (come on, sometimes I'm on-time leh..lol..)
At first, I thought I was not able to make it to the meet-up because I had meeting that day at 5pm, then KS mum is leaving to China that night, it's the culture of KS family to have dinner together and accompany the parent to the KL Sentral when they going oversea. If I tell KS I'm going out, will he be angry because we really seldom have dinner with her mum lately? hmm.....
Luckilly, when I called up KS's sister, she said her mum had "da bao" her dinner already since she has not finish packing her stuffs. Thank god! Now, I'm out of the dillemma! Haha.. (I hope KS mum was not dissapointed because I didn't say goodbye to her, )
Dinner with the girls was awesome! We had western food fiesta at the newly opened restaurant named "Tony Roma's". It's very famous, I've seen the restaurant when I was in Fullerton, California. Our tour guide recommended us to try the cuisine there (she said very famous in Taiwan wor), but we didn't dare to enter the doorstep of the restaurant. Why? Because we worry the PRICE will be a heart-attack for us. LOL~ But it was really out of my expectation when the bill charged 5 of us like RM200 that night on 4 dinner meals. I thought it's going to be like RM70-80 per person.
The food we ordered was so delicious, I liked the grilled Salmon so much! Tender in the inside and crispy on the outside, it's so perfect !! I had no chance to try other food because my tummy was going to explode after I stucking the whole Salmon to my stomach. (it was too tasty that I cannot leave them on the table u know, I have to finish them all!)
After a long dinner, Diana said "ah..the night is still young!". Then I said "ya ya.. very young tim!" Hehe..me and she were being naughty that night. (no bfs around + long time never go to club = wat u waiting for? party time!)
But there were something I didn't notice until we started to chit-chat at the Italianese. It was not party time for some of my friends.
Ping has broken up with Hao Kan........
Ya, they broke up for sometime already. .. ..it didn't surprise me. .. but I'm a little concern about Ping. Worry about she's staying alone, and hanging out with people that she might not know much.. etc etc.. Tonight I'll sms her, see how's she's doing ..
Then, it's Mian. I've never seen her stress-out like that before! Her work must have challenge her so so much. Now she's in Bintulu, somewhre she hates to stick aroung with. But it's work, and she has no choice. Hope she'll be healthy always, and happy. Next year, look for a new job that require no travel ! But something is really good, Mian is thinner already, haha.. I also want to be thin like her ! (ah, now I'm mad, thinking about my big tummy..)
Ah Fu, she was so quite that night. I think because her contact lenses were dry-out. I finally saw her laptop! Hu hu hu..very nice laptop, and even nicer because it's FOC. Her company really very rich !
Diana..what can I say. She was the best listener that night, simply because she tumpang my car to go home. LOL ~ I'm not sure she was willing to listen to my long and never ending stories or she was asleep/yawning/发呆ing, but I really appreciate it ! Cha boh, you are the best! Please follow my car again next time, okay? Let me nagging around..LOL~
That's all my story for the last weekend. It was so fantastic because of you all, my friends !! Thank you so much !
..so, when is the next clubbing time ya?..
Comment from Dinosaur aka Diana (my sweet friend)
I am always a good listener..haahha hope all our friends will be doing ok. :)
more updates! more updates! :P
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
2008年， 对不起！Part 2
Hello Hello, I'm back! Waiting for KS to lunch, so I have little time to continue my unfinished blog yesterday. Hehe..where did I stop already ya yesterday..Oh ya.. FebruaryYa, Feb is busy month and happening month for CNY. Same as all past years, I spent all the time with KS family. Ya, because my family don't celebrate CNY, and usually they are gone for vacation during that time. We went to Tai Ping for one day trip, ya! That's was our second time. The purpose is to visit KS granny and his uncles in Tai Ping. But due to high traffic, we only spent 2-3hrs in Tai Ping. The whole journey was very tiring. But I was happy to meet KS relatives, they look exactly the same la. haha. His granny is a good woman, her smile is very calming, although she's sick, she still very warm to us and never complaint about her sickness.
You know what, I like old folks and babies very much, dunno why. When I see babies or old ppl, I like to smile at them, and look into their faces and eyes. Maybe I've spent a long long time in city, everyday looking at fake faces, unpredictable faces, undescribable faces, sad faces; when I look at babies faces, I will feel "I'm Alive! I'm real! I'm still in the World" Haha..siao siao..Older ppl's faces, when I look at them, I feel really calm. Feel love and protection. How I wish I have grandpa or grandma..
Oh ya, something BIG happen in Feb.. I've fired my assistant. Later I will write the full story, now just summarize to one phrase - he's not suitable for the job. Haha...I think this is always the reason lah..After he's gone, I'm more busy, workload back to my shoulder again. Sigh~ but my mind is more relax, eventhough I have to work longer time. I rather to do more, tired than to prepare for serious heart attack. haha..
Oh, meeting time..that's for the beginning of 2008.
Personally, dunno why, I just so like 2008. This number make me feel more comfortable than 2007. I just hate "27" in my age column. But dunno why, 28 looks good.
So I have a hunch that this year will be a good year for me, and great year for Malaysia, and hopefully a peaceful year for the World.
Long life DAP & 反对党！Long life 马英九！Long life Obama...？haha
You know what, I like old folks and babies very much, dunno why. When I see babies or old ppl, I like to smile at them, and look into their faces and eyes. Maybe I've spent a long long time in city, everyday looking at fake faces, unpredictable faces, undescribable faces, sad faces; when I look at babies faces, I will feel "I'm Alive! I'm real! I'm still in the World" Haha..siao siao..Older ppl's faces, when I look at them, I feel really calm. Feel love and protection. How I wish I have grandpa or grandma..
Oh ya, something BIG happen in Feb.. I've fired my assistant. Later I will write the full story, now just summarize to one phrase - he's not suitable for the job. Haha...I think this is always the reason lah..After he's gone, I'm more busy, workload back to my shoulder again. Sigh~ but my mind is more relax, eventhough I have to work longer time. I rather to do more, tired than to prepare for serious heart attack. haha..
Oh, meeting time..that's for the beginning of 2008.
Personally, dunno why, I just so like 2008. This number make me feel more comfortable than 2007. I just hate "27" in my age column. But dunno why, 28 looks good.
So I have a hunch that this year will be a good year for me, and great year for Malaysia, and hopefully a peaceful year for the World.
Long life DAP & 反对党！Long life 马英九！Long life Obama...？haha
Saturday, March 15, 2008
2008年， 对不起！
2008年， 对不起！
大家好吗？2008年过得还好吧~ 我呢，还不错。不过，是超忙得啰- 工作量又多了，睡觉时间更乱了 - 种种因素害得我要update blog的时间都没有！
现在其实也是很多很多东西要做的，已经12点多了，又不知道要做到几点了今天。。
就快快的summarize我要讲的话吧。
一月我做了什么？
忙买衣服啰，不懂为什么好像都买不完。买了又觉得不适合，又觉得没去xxx shopping好像不甘愿。其实，真正的原因是。。本小姐便胖了！！！ 结果就什么都买不到，买到了又嫌自己穿得不好看。真是气死我，有够不爽。本是小人家肥，人家胖，现在轮到自己了啦。。好伤心
二月- 新年
准备那么多衣服，可以上场了！yes! 穿到大大件的衣服，根本没人看得出我的肥肉。哈哈哈！
年三十晚，我为团圆饭准备了一样菜- 我的拿手ponteh。ks家人吃得开心，我就也开心，嘻嘻。
然后忘了初几，我们就出太平一日游！
OMG!这样写一下就一个钟了？一点了！
明天才继续写啦！
Wednesday, June 13, 2007
祝你幸福。
阴天。
今年是结婚的好年份，很多朋友纷纷“排期”摆酒嫁娶。
上两个星期，就有两个老朋友，成龙及会炫，结婚了。我没有参加，没能亲自恭贺他们，觉得有点惭愧。想在这里深深祝福他们，新婚快乐！愿他们与他们的另一半可以白头偕老，幸福美满。
还有明健，静涵，打算今年底结婚，我希望一切安排如愿！千万不要为了小细节伤害结婚的快乐气氛。
我一定会厚礼参加你们的婚礼，衷心祝福你们。看见你们在一起那么多年，现在一起踏入人生另一个阶段，真为你们感到欣慰！
希望我认识的人都可以有情人终成眷属。
LOVE ALL AROUND THE WORLD !
今年是结婚的好年份，很多朋友纷纷“排期”摆酒嫁娶。
上两个星期，就有两个老朋友，成龙及会炫，结婚了。我没有参加，没能亲自恭贺他们，觉得有点惭愧。想在这里深深祝福他们，新婚快乐！愿他们与他们的另一半可以白头偕老，幸福美满。
还有明健，静涵，打算今年底结婚，我希望一切安排如愿！千万不要为了小细节伤害结婚的快乐气氛。
我一定会厚礼参加你们的婚礼，衷心祝福你们。看见你们在一起那么多年，现在一起踏入人生另一个阶段，真为你们感到欣慰！
希望我认识的人都可以有情人终成眷属。
LOVE ALL AROUND THE WORLD !
Thursday, May 10, 2007
Hello ! Hello ! Hello ! Anybody out there?
Have been writing this blog for quite sometime already, but seems no one visit and give comments. Hey you ! Ppl out there, don't be so cold-blooded mah. Give face lah, at least I have some encouragement to continue this blog.
Lately, have nothing special to write. Just back from US trip, didn't feel much excitement as last time when I went to Australia. Sigh~ maybe because I'm OLD already, very hard to satisfy, like my bf said. Maybe I was comparing too much the lifestyle there with my lifestyle, that's why I feel a little discourage and depress. Yayaya, I know what you thinking..we cannot compare with them mah..I know I know. They are American, we are Malaysian mah..ok ok, I know ! I know it's stupid to compare with them and feel bad.
Ok, let's talk about something else.
My married friend called me to update about each other's life. He's not happy because his wife can't get along with his mum. Family battle~~ and he's in the middle. Sigh ~ can hear he's sighing over the other side of the phone.
Pin ! I will support you ! Don't piss, give a little patience. If you too stress out, can shout at me, just call me!
Lately, have nothing special to write. Just back from US trip, didn't feel much excitement as last time when I went to Australia. Sigh~ maybe because I'm OLD already, very hard to satisfy, like my bf said. Maybe I was comparing too much the lifestyle there with my lifestyle, that's why I feel a little discourage and depress. Yayaya, I know what you thinking..we cannot compare with them mah..I know I know. They are American, we are Malaysian mah..ok ok, I know ! I know it's stupid to compare with them and feel bad.
Ok, let's talk about something else.
My married friend called me to update about each other's life. He's not happy because his wife can't get along with his mum. Family battle~~ and he's in the middle. Sigh ~ can hear he's sighing over the other side of the phone.
Pin ! I will support you ! Don't piss, give a little patience. If you too stress out, can shout at me, just call me!
Monday, March 19, 2007
我的遗憾。
我又去了Mavis的blog。最近她不太开心，写的都是很灰的事情。她说的大部分故事我都知道，我也可以感受她的不满及消沉。很多时候我觉得她很可怜，无助。因为我们的际遇很相识，我们的生活方式也很一样。所以我可以明白她内心的那种挣扎，还有无奈。
叹~若不是大家的立场关系，我们可以一起坐下谈心，或是一起抱头大哭为何生活那么难。我们是同病相怜，但就不能一起养病。
有时人大了，事情就是这样复杂了。明明很想做的东西，却不一定可以做，可以做也不一定有必要做。以前可以四海皆是兄弟，现在向关心一个人还得考虑三下。
Mavis, 虽然你看不见这些话，我还是想告诉你，加油！生活要过得开心！
在此，也写给那些令我们这两个女人生活变得复杂的男人。。请你们睁大双眼看看身边的女人，你真的瞭解她们吗?
叹~若不是大家的立场关系，我们可以一起坐下谈心，或是一起抱头大哭为何生活那么难。我们是同病相怜，但就不能一起养病。
有时人大了，事情就是这样复杂了。明明很想做的东西，却不一定可以做，可以做也不一定有必要做。以前可以四海皆是兄弟，现在向关心一个人还得考虑三下。
Mavis, 虽然你看不见这些话，我还是想告诉你，加油！生活要过得开心！
在此，也写给那些令我们这两个女人生活变得复杂的男人。。请你们睁大双眼看看身边的女人，你真的瞭解她们吗?
Saturday, March 10, 2007
二OO七。十。三
刚刚在收拾公司里的小柜子 整理那些旧文件 看看那些凌乱不堪的纸张 才发现我已经有好长一段时间没有好好关心这间公司
看回一班曾经在这间公司和我一起工作过的人 一张张熟悉的脸孔 单纯没有恶意的笑容 一时想歪误入歧途的眼神 还有满怀大志的表情 令我好怀念那些日子
算一算 也有几年了 时间好象闪电 轰隆一声 就过去了 没有留下什么 只有回忆
以前 我算得上 是在和一班人并肩作战 努力向上 处处为公司想 但是现在 狼狈不堪 人在 工在 生意在 心 却不知去了那里 以前 总是紧张报告 这个报告要做好 那份报告要每星期交给我一次 这份报告要收起来 那份报告要交给老板看 满柜子里都是这些报告 现在 好像 一份报告都没有了 连最重要的文件 我都是放在一边 迟一点 迟一点才file起来 就这样 迟一点又一点 半年都过去了 新年都就到了
我能做什么呢 这样下去有没有问题 我还能像以前充满活力希望吗 到底问题在哪里 对与错你能告诉我吗 ?
看回一班曾经在这间公司和我一起工作过的人 一张张熟悉的脸孔 单纯没有恶意的笑容 一时想歪误入歧途的眼神 还有满怀大志的表情 令我好怀念那些日子
算一算 也有几年了 时间好象闪电 轰隆一声 就过去了 没有留下什么 只有回忆
以前 我算得上 是在和一班人并肩作战 努力向上 处处为公司想 但是现在 狼狈不堪 人在 工在 生意在 心 却不知去了那里 以前 总是紧张报告 这个报告要做好 那份报告要每星期交给我一次 这份报告要收起来 那份报告要交给老板看 满柜子里都是这些报告 现在 好像 一份报告都没有了 连最重要的文件 我都是放在一边 迟一点 迟一点才file起来 就这样 迟一点又一点 半年都过去了 新年都就到了
我能做什么呢 这样下去有没有问题 我还能像以前充满活力希望吗 到底问题在哪里 对与错你能告诉我吗 ?
Thursday, January 4, 2007
嗨，2007！
2007 年，终于来了。
时间的威力，看见了吧。无论你有多不爽它，多不愿意见到它，它是不会让步的！
所以我还是乖乖地接受事实吧。27可能未必是我想象中那么差，也许是我的幸运号码也说不定。
06年真是过得太糟了，我真希望坏的日子可以好像在Johor溢出来的水，虽然破坏了许多东西，也伤害了许多人，但最后都会彻底地退回去，不留下一滴。
2007，我要铲掉我这座坟山，我要培植许多许多灿烂的太阳花。我要我的生活是灿烂的，幸福的，快乐的，简单的。
小松鼠去打猎。Little Squirrel Goes Hunting。
来了KL都已经快四年了，打理公司也有两年了。
时间过得还真快。回顾这几年，我有时还蛮佩服自己；还记得我刚认识他的时候，听他说 他的生意故事，我还在那里一头雾水，根本一句也听不明白。看着他眼里的那团火，还有他背后的抱负，我想我是不可能可以和他在一起很久的了；反正我跟他感情 不是很深，他说的什么东东我又不明白，我简直好像是两个世界的人，要在一起？难~~
现在你问我，还难吗？四年了，还难吗？
难，还是难。
我 以为两年的时间，我应该很fit的了；现在我发觉，原来，我还没完全适应现在的生活。正确的说法，应该是我还没有适应和他一起生活，作他背后的女人。我一 直以为的东西其实都不对，我以为自己已做得很好，但其实不是。我不该满足于自己的成绩，就觉得发生任何事都不是我的错。
我只不过是一只刚学会拿稳猎枪的小松鼠，正紧紧跟着这头狮子在森林里找寻可捕捉的猎物。
在狮子的生活里，没有平稳这回事。要吃就要猎，要猎就要拼，不然就准备饿死！
既然选择了这种生活，小松鼠，豁出去吧！狮子先生，你等等我吧~~
Monday, November 13, 2006
二OO六年十一月十三日 ~ 安息日
前天和朋友出去喝茶，已有一年没见的朋友真的变得很多。
本来每次见到她，总是闷闷不乐，好像有一大箩的心事苦水；但那天见到的她，好像变成另一个人似的，好像个开心果。
我真为她高兴，因为她的生活称心如意，我想是她的新工作的关系。
这一阵子都没有遇见或听见令人舒畅的故事，所以我很珍惜那天她给我的感觉。原来在我们现在这个年龄，也有人是快乐的。
朋友，让我们一起快乐吧！管他什么工作环境太闷，工作总是做不得不够好，工钱不够多，结不结婚，男友对我好不好。。。统统放在一边，来个安息日吧！
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